We've been told as small children the happily ever after theme which seems to be so popular till this day. But the question becomes... is it really ? Is the story really over or is it to be continued? We have been lied to. TV, Media, and people like to make things a means to an end but really the story continues.
The sooner we realize there's so many pages in the book the closer we will get the value of each moment whether if its success or failure. Then or now. Present and Future. Lets dig deep here... why do people believe its over after you fail or when they hit a certain goal then they'll be happy? Everything almost becomes outcome driven instead of just being a part of the story, instead of focusing on the moment. This causes folks to look too far ahead or have regrets from their past. The goal becomes to stop all of this and to realize there's many pages to unfold
How are you going to do that? It begins with forgiving yourself from your past mistakes , knowing that everyone makes them and that is how you learn. And what you've gone through will help the next pages unfold. You have to take it one step at a time. It's easier said than done but it is possible. Whatever you go through use it as a lesson and move forward to the next page.
You are not alone. There's only 8 billion people on the planet going through the same thing as you. That's your supporting factor. You have to see through you will be progress. After all it is a long story and only you determine where it ends. Take your wins and loses as lessons to help you in your next chapters. And like I stated before the story really does continue until you're dead. But as long as you and I are here. It keeps going so that's exactly what you should do.
Finally at this point you know. There's so many pages , so why fixate on your past chapters or chapters you aren't ready to tackle yet. One day at a time. The happily ever after thing in your mind should be changed to " to be continued" because it truly does continue. Now the question is... Will you continue to move forward? Or will you let your story end in regret? Like always get better everyday
"Optimize Yourself"
Yours truly
Mulo Motivation